Tuesday, June 05, 2007
Kelantan
Above are pictures of the train we were on. I tried to take a whole row of the beds, but it wasn't possible. =( Anyway, the trains are not too bad- at least the beds are rather comfortable, and they give cutains so we can close the curtains and avoid others if we wish to. As you can see, the beds are bunk beds, and, well, though there are curtains to block out people, these curtains are not enough to block out sound. So if you happen to take the train with a group of students or other people who like to "share" their music, you might find it a little hard to sleep. In the last photo, the one with the straw? It was dropped onto my bed by one student who was drinking coke. It stained my bed!! And I don't know if that student knew that he/she had dropped it, 'cos nobody took it off my bed. -_-"
So after like 15 hours of the train ride, we finally arrived at Kota Bahru, the town of Kelantan. My granduncle brought us to this stall selling Nasi Dagang, which is supposedly famous. However, because we arrived late, there was no more Nasi Dagang left. That's my father's favourite food actually. Nasi Dagang is actually the unpolished rice with curry- fish or chicken curry. The irritating part about this dish is that the fish has too many bones, and small ones at that. Bleah. It has never been my favourite, so I'm glad I didn't eat it. Anyway, on the day we arrived at Kota Bahru, it was Vesak Day, so I went vegetarian, and at the 豆包, as you can see in the picture. It is a sticky dumpling-like thing, the outside is sticky, and it surrounds a big chunk of 豆沙 inside, which is mixed with a bit of pepper. It's very nice! But there's a problem with it. It's too sticky! It's kinda hard to scrape the skin off the banana leave, and when u bite it, the texture is kinda like the malt candy we eat- you know, the one where they put the malt on a pair of chopsticks and you are supposed to twist it occasionally so that it doesn't drip?
After brunch, we went to the cemetery to 扫墓 for my grandfather and great grandparents. I didn't take any pictures this time, 'cos I think it's rude to do so. Anyway, this is my second time visiting a cemetery, and the place is soooo quiet! Rather eerie actually. But I'm glad I went, 'cos I think it's a good experience to 扫墓. Anyway, it was an eye-opener. The cemetery was like a maze! I am really amazed by my father's ability to be able to recognize my ancestors' tombs, 'cos there are simply too many tombstones there already. When we went to my grandfather's tombstone, guess what? Some idiots had smashed his photo! All the pieces were gone, leaving only the stone behind the picture. I was, and am appalled by that behaviour. There's no respect shown for the dead! Talk about manners and respect. My goodness.
We were all pretty tired after going to the cemetery, as the weather was too darn hot there. We were just perspiring all the while we were there, and the sun was soooo painful! And smart me didn't put her sunblock. -_-" Our next item on the agenda was to find accommodation. Guess what? The hotels only had space for the first night we were there, and ALL had no more rooms for the next night because of some conference which people from other states were coming to attend. Talk about bad timing man. So we had to go from hotel to hotel to enquire about the rooms, and luckily, we found one which had a room available for the second night, albeit the most expensive room. But beggars can't be choosers, can they? But in the end, we didn't have to stay in that more expensive room, 'cos the receptionist at the hotel we were staying in on the first night told us there was a room available for us if we wanted it. Oh man, that room sucked! The carpet was stained, the blankets didn't feel clean, and the toilet was a wet toilet! Argh, I hate wet toilets. What made this worst was that the carpet hadn't been vacuumed for goodness knows how long, so when you have just washed your legs and stepped onto the carpet to go to the bed, hair and other unidentifiable objects cling to it, making it as dirty as before. -_-" And I don't like that feeling. Oh, and the room was so damp! I had left my books, foolscap and magazine inside my bag, and I didn't even touch it, and the next morning, everything was damp and limp. Argh.
Anyway, that night, we visited this place near the Chinese Chamber of Commerce famous for their Nasi Kukus, a certain type of Malay rice where it's rice, fried chicken, and a small scoop of 3 different types of curry and chilli, and you can choose whatever else you want to add on. This Nasi Kukus is very shiok. Don't judge a book by its cover. Though one small spoon of each type of gravy seems too little to satisfy you, it is actually enough, because when all the gravies are mixed, the taste would become much better. If you had requested for more of one type or the other, there wouldn't have been a balance in the taste of the rice already. Some of the dishes featured here are the barbecued chicken intestines, and ground coconut stuffed in chilli, like the yong tau foo chilli, only that this is with coconut while the yong tau foo one is with fish paste. The chicken intestines look kinda disgusting, don't they? I thought so too actually, and was reluctant to try it, but then again, if I didn't try it, how was I gonna tell you all what it tasted like? Well, try it I did, and it was rather nice. Sweet and a little spicy, with a barbecued taste. It was rather chewy as well, a bit like sotong. The ground coconut in chilli was good 'cos the chilli was fresh, so you could taste the chilli, and so was the coconut. Good experience! Then we ordered ice kacang from the neighbouring stall. It's run by this old couple, so cute! Their service was very good. Their ice kacang came with a small scoop of neapolitan ice cream, and real kacang! Haha we seldom see that in Singapore these days. And what I liked about it was that the ice was crushed really very finely, not like that of Singapore's, which is coarser. And all the while we were eating our dinner, the smell of the longkang kept wafting over into our nostrils. By right, it should have thrown us off our appetites, but strangely enough, it didn't. We still had a good time eating our food. =)
The next day, we went to the Thai wholesale market. We heard that they only sell their goods until 9am, after that, they are chased away. Everything was sold wholesale, including watermelons and chickens. Haha, how do people manage to finish so much watermelon? But I guess this is good for those with large families, and those who are running food businesses. It's so crowded I tell you! But very fun. There was so much to see, so much to take in.
And finally, we went to eat my father's favourite Nasi Dagang. He has been looking forward so much to it! Well, I didn't eat it, 'cos as I said, I don't really like it, and I don't have to try it to let you all know how it tastes, 'cos I've eaten it before. Personally, I find the curry too coconut-y and a bit too thick for my taste. So besides Nasi Dagang, we bought food from the food van outside the kopitiam. We bought kiam kui, and Nasi Kapit. I forgot to take a photo of the kiam kuih, but it's something like zhui kuih.
You see the building in the first set of slides? Those buildings house swallows. This enterprising idea sprung from some relative of my father's, and the idea has sparked off the birds' nest craze. Now almost 2000 shophouses are used to house the swallows. Of course, the swallows are not owned by anyone; they are wild swallows looking for places to build their nests. It's not legal to rear so many of them, so what these people do is that they create an environment that would lure the swallows into their shophouses, and then build their nests, after which the nests are harvested and voila! You have birds' nest! It doesn't take much maintenance to house them, actually. All you need is a big, dark room, preferably with many floors, and to build grids into the ceilings. You don't even need lights, 'cos swallows like dark places to build their nests. However, you need to provide some kind of system to make the place cool, as swallows like cool places. It's a really lucrative business; 1kg of the birds' nest can fetch about 4.5-5k! And it's easy money. You just do whatever was mentioned above, and hope and pray the birds come in. When that happens, you just sit back, relax, and wait to harvest the nests. Doesn't it sound too good to be true? How to tell if a shophouse houses swallows? Well, you know it when you see many many swallows circling around a building, and also when the interior of the house is sealed with cement. I took several videos of the swallows, lemme show you... Too bad my camera didn't have microphone to let you hear the birds.
For lunch, we went to eat my mother's favourite: kau jum (read: cow jump). It's a dish with green rice, the green coming from I think 18 different plants, topped with beansprouts, cucumbers, parsley, basil, chilli, fish and keropok. It's a rather healthy meal actually, so full of fibre. I never really liked it much when Mira cooks it at home, 'cos the rice always turns out mushy, but over there, I got hooked. It's really much nicer there than at home. The taste of fresh bean sprouts and chilli was good, especially the chilli- it really whetted my appetite! There's also the Kelantan laksa, my all time favourite Kelantan dish. Except here, they call it lakseh, because they use kway teow instead of the thick bee hoon. I much prefer the thick bee hoon though. I've always like the lakseh from this stall, but that day, the texture of the kway teow threw me of. It was too mushy! Nonetheless, the gravy was still very good. Oh, and a special mention here. I've never seen someone so happy in his work before! The ice kacang man looked so cute, smiling as he made his ice kacang. How often do you see people doing that? And he went about doing his job with such contentment I couldn't help but enjoy my own bowl of ice kacang. Haha..
The next day, we went to the market, both indoor and outdoor. Basically, they sell the same things in both places, except in the upper floors of the indoor market, they sold clothes and other stuff. They sell turtles' eggs too! So cute! But it's illegal, and stock for the eggs are usually rare. Unlike Singapore, where we have stalls and the stall owners stand behind their stalls and serve you, in these markets, the stall owners sit among their goods and sell their stuff to you.
That night, we went to a Thai restaurant my parents have been raving about. It was in such a secluded area, just look at the photos and you know what I mean. However, many people still managed to find their way over there, so you can imagine how popular the food is. They had so many customers that we waited for about an hour for the food to arrive! -_-" But when the food came, it was a bit of a disappointment, 'cos the food was only ok. None of them made you want to eat again and again and again. The fried eel in vegetables was the most disappointing I feel. It was too spicy! They added peppers in their whole chunk! It was so hot that you couldn't even taste the food except for the pepper. Besides, I think they cut the eel too small, such that we couldn't really feel the texture of it. There was an interesting dish which we didn't order- the standing chicken. They deepfry the whole chicken, and then make it stand up, and then they put a tea candle directly below the chicken and serve you. The novelty is in the standing chicken. I'm not sure how it tastes though.
And then after that night, my battery went flat, and I didn't charge the battery. Any way, we went to the border of Malaysia- tat bai- to shop. That is Malaysia's border leading into Thailand. In the past, we used to go into Thailand to shop, but now, because Southern Thailand is in chaos, nobody goes there anymore. Even the shopkeepers have moved away. Tat bai sells mostly clothes and toys. Just think Far East Plaza meets Mini Toons, and you get the idea. So many Spongebob Squarepants stuff were sold! Bags, soft toys, key chains, etc etc. Yi Lun went crazy over there. She wanted to get the furry Spongebob slippers, but unfortunately they didn't have her size.
So, the day at Tat Bai was our last day in Kota Bahru, and at night, we made our way back to Singapore, and we spend 14 hours on the train.
There was not a single moment of hunger during the trip there. We just kept eating and eating and eating, plus, I don't think I want to see curry for a long while. All the meals there consisted of curry! I'm glad to be back in Singapore, eating food that don't involve curry. Did you know, during my stay there, I only saw one stall selling chicken rice?!
Sunday, June 03, 2007
Back and Lovin' It!
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Bitching V200
Speaking of which, I wish it were legal to beat up people to a bloody bloody pulp. Imagine the satisfaction. And I do wish some people would just know when to keep their freaking bloody mouths shut when people are already giving signals that they don't like the topic and have no freaking desire whatsoever to explore the topic further. But then again, to be rude is to go against the darling Confucius values that we hold oh-so-close to our stupid hypocritical hearts. And all for what? To give face. Oh, if it's who I think you are thinking that I'm angry at, it's not. There are more than one person who can make us go against our wonderful Confucius values.
On an entirely separate issue, this is about the Sabah issue.
I know I was supposed to book the hotels today, but the house is so freakishly bloody noisy that any attempt to speak on the phone makes me want to smash the phone against the wall. I'll make the reservations when I come back k? I know it's procrastination on my part again, but if you were staying in my house, you'd know what I mean. AND my parents have suggested us going to kinabalu park in the middle of our trip. That is, like maybe the 27th or something, then after that one night we go back to the original hotel where there will be transport to the airport when we leave. IF the original hotel that we are staying in agrees to let us do that, I shall go on and book it like that k? But of course, hopefully the conference itinerary doesn't clash with our plans. OK, here's the case:
1) we go to the Kinabalu Park in the middle of our stay there.
Pros: we can easily get free transport to the airport, and this is good because our flight is at 1015, and we need to check in 2 hours earlier, so if there's free transport, and this hotel's really close to the airport, we don't have to wake up earlier
Cons: we face the possibility of the itinerary clashing with our plans.
the hotel might not let us do so.
2) we follow our original plan to go there on our 2nd last day and stay the night
Pros: no disruption of the itinerary
Cons: on the day we go back, we have to wake up really early. 2 hours before check-in, that's 0815, right? then it's another 2 hours to the airport, which means we have to leave by 6 plus, which then means we need to wake up latest 5 plus.
We could change the time of our flight to the one at 2105, but I checked the price, it's RM30 more expensive than what we paid for, which is RM89.99, which is not feasible I think.
So... what do you think? Leave your comment on the tagboard k? I probably should have emailed you about this, but I think it might be better like this, so the person who replies first can see the other's comments... =)
Ok I'm going to get ready to go off to Malaysia. Sorry for the delay in arranging accommodations. It's my first time organising it, and there seem to be so many things to consider, and new advice given, so hopefully I'll become better at this given more practice...
Sunday, May 27, 2007
The Significant Other
Just like Blue's song, "Best in Me"- " 'Cos you bring out the best in me/ That no one else can do/ That's why I'm by your side/ That's why I love you"- that's why our other half is supposed to be the better part of ourselves.
Of course, as the other half, you're supposed to bring out the best in your partner. That's how a true relationship works, I guess. I guess from this, I sound rather idealistic, but blame it on those romance stories that I always read. The two leads always seem to make each other see their faults more clearly, and thus make them more willing to change for the better. Similarly, I've heard some of my friends saying that their boyfriends have made them into better people.
We know that we show our ugliest sides to people whom we love. The more we love them and care about them, the uglier the sides we show them. I guess we do that because we feel safe with them, that their love for us won't change because of it. Perhaps during the course of showing our ugly sides, we are allowing that side of ourselves to be changed? Of course, we won't immediately show that sides of ourselves to that important Other. Sometimes, it may just so happen that we see what the Other has done, and it impresses us so much that we might want to emulate him/her so that we may feel even more validated and perhaps, more loved or closer to him/her, because we know that is what we lack, and that particular action is something we know which is right to do. In emulating the behaviour, aren't we changing ourselves for the better?
In times of problems, isn't it that support for the Other is often emphasised, urging the Other not to give up, to persevere? Isn't this also an act of making the Other become a better person? After all, what doesn't kill us, often makes us stronger and wiser the next time round.
The value of the significant other doesn't apply only to partners, of course. Everyone provides us with a chance to better ourselves. I used partners because they are the ones who will be with us for the next rest of our lives after our family, and they will be the ones whom we will spend the most time with for the rest of our lives, and therefore, be the ones with the greatest impact on our lives. Don't you think so?
Wednesday, May 23, 2007
Youtube
Sunday, May 20, 2007
Long long belated post
The day of my birthday, I had a celebration at home with my family again! This time, 'cos it was the 3rd day of CNY, most cake shops weren't open, and of course, my FAVOURITE tiramisu shop- Tiramisutra- wasn't too, which meant we went to other cake shops to look for cakes. We combed the Siglap area, and it was a toss-up between Temptations and Polar. Polar's selection wasn't very exciting, and their chocolate cake selection was... well, not exciting as well. So we went Temptations! The cake was not bad, but not exactly memorable. Prima Deli would have been better, really. BUT: being able to celebrate it with family was really good. Imagine, on my birthday next year, it would just be my parents and I celebrating my birthday. So... my birthday can be said to be the last one that the whole family can celebrate together for a good long while. And what's more significant was that it was my 21st birthday! How good is that? =D
And then, the finale of my birthday. The train set I've been lusting after since I was young!
Tuesday, April 24, 2007
Thursday, April 19, 2007
I am craving for....
Nasi Lemak
Prawn Noodles
I'll tell you more when I think of more... I'm so hungryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
Friday, April 13, 2007
SMS-ing
Tuesday, April 10, 2007
Thanks!
Merrilyn
Thanks for:
- listening to my complains
- the sms today
- staying back to listen to the presentation
Si Huan
Thanks for:
- driving me to wherever yesterday just so I wouldn't be late for the meeting AGAIN!! Haha... In the end I wasn't, but I had to make them walk all the way from North Spine. Haha... Felt rather bad, but oh well... Hee...
- listening to me go on and on about the presentation
- wanting to know how the presentation went. =)
Si Jia
Haha you're probably not gonna read this, but oh well, since I'm thanking you all, you are included too! =)
Thanks for:
- volunteering to listen to me and giving me comments!!
- yes, and also listening to me go on and on about the presentation... -_-"
Alvin Hong
Thanks for:
- volunteering to come over to help me to rehearse my presentation. Haha... I know, he's prob not gonna read this either, but what the hell... Haha...
JK
Thanks for:
- yep, you guessed it right, listening to me.
- listening again... Hahaha, these few days I think you've been listening to me go round in circles about many many things, thanks for ur patience!! =)
Yep, I guess what's going through your mind now should be, "Why is this Yi Ling so ke qi again?" Well, I think I should let you all know how much your gestures meant to me. They may have been small, but they showed that you cared, and I really appreciate that. =)
And I shall stop being so incredibly soppy and mushy and ke qi. =p
Happy studying!!
Thursday, April 05, 2007
Your Birthdate: February 20 |
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That's rather depressing...
Don't Forget to Remember Me - Carrie Underwood
For momma they flew by
But for me they dragged on and on
We were loading up that Chevy
Both tryin' not to cry
Momma kept on talking
Putting off good-bye
Then she took my hand and said
"Baby don't forget:
Before you hit the highway
You better stop for gas
There's a 50 in the ashtray I
n case you run short on cash
Here's a map and here's a Bible
If you ever lose your way
Just one more thing before you leave
Don't forget to remember me"
This downtown apartment sure makes me miss home
and those bills there on the counter
Keep telling me I'm on my own
And just like every Sunday I called momma up last night
And even when it's not, I tell her everything's all right
Before we hung up I said "Hey momma, don't forget:
to tell my baby sister
I'll see her in the fall
And tell me-maw that I miss her
Yeah, I should give her a call
And make sure you tell Daddy that I'm still his little girl
Yeah I still feel like I'm where I'm supposed to be
Don't forget to remember me"
Tonight I find myself kneeling by the bed to pray
I haven't done this in a while
So I don't know what to say but
Lord, I feel so small sometimes in this big ol' place
I know there are more important things, but
Don't forget to remember me
Don't forget to remember me
Go find this song!!
Sunday, April 01, 2007
I just learnt my groupmate's mother passed away last Thursday night. I'm not close to him, but I can just imagine the shock and the dread and the pain he must have felt when he went back to see his mother. If it was me, I'd probably be numb now. I just can't imagine losing any of my loved ones. I never want to let them go. Even though it's another person's mother, when I think of it happening to me, I just feel this great urge to cry.
I know when a person's time is up, it's up. But it doesn't make letting go any easier. I just want to hold on for as long as I can. I know I said I'd opt for euthanasia if I ever came to the stage where treatment was no use for me. But what some people have told me about my loved ones not wanting me to opt for that have made me consider it deeper. If my loved ones were to opt for it, I'd probably refuse to acknowledge it too. Regardless of how silly it is to hold on to someone who can't respond, I'm sure at the back of their minds is the small small hope that as long as life support is given, there's a chance that he/she will wake up one day. That's why I'm afraid of death. I don't want to leave anyone behind. You could say I'm afraid of the unknown, and I'd agree, but only because I don't know if there's an afterlife. If there is, probably I won't be as afraid, because it means I'll be able to bring my memories with me and still watch them. But if there isn't, would it mean abandoning them? I really don't want to.
Oh man, I'm sounding like a soppy sod now... Oh well, maybe it's just hormones, or the realness of death....
Sunday, March 25, 2007
Wednesday, March 21, 2007
Change the World - Westlife
Since you've gone,
well it seems like everything is wrong,
And deep inside,
I know that i've,lost much more than pride,
Well, happiness is getting further away,
Girl,i miss you more than words can say.
I need a miracle now,
so tell me,
How can i change the world,
Cause i sure can't change your mind,
Where's the miracle i need now,
got to get to you somehow,
Cause i can't change the world.
I can't change the world,
No, i can't change the world,
I can't change the world.
Losing you,
well it's been the hardest thing to do,
So, i close my eyes and tell myself,
that somehow i'll survive.
Well you gave me heaven,
then you took it away,
Girl, i miss you more with each passing day,
i need a miracle now,so tell me...
How can i change the world, (change it)
Cause i sure can't change your mind,
Where's the miracle i need now,
got to get to you somehow.
And baby,
so sad that you have to leave me,
just so you can find yourself,
And it's so sad that you just can't see,
I love you more than life itself.
No, i can't change the world,
How can i change the world,
Cause i sure can't change your mind,
Where's the miracle i need now,
got to get to you somehow,
Cause i can't change the world,
got to get to you somehow,
No, i can't change the world.....
Monday, March 19, 2007
Tomorrow
Song: Tomorrow
The sun'll come out
Tomorrow
Bet your bottom dollar
That tomorrow
There'll be sun!
Just thinkin' about
Tomorrow
Clears away the cobwebs,
And the sorrow
'Til there's none!
When I'm stuck a day
That's gray,
And lonely,
I just stick out my chin
And Grin,
And Say,
Oh!
The sun'll come out
Tomorrow
So ya gotta hang on
'Til tomorrow
Come what may Tomorrow!
Tomorrow!
I love ya Tomorrow!
You're always
A day
A way!
Haha I put up this song cos it sounded so inspiring, so positive. Hope you all liked it. It was played in the documentary on children with Tourette's Syndrome, and I just thought it was so touching the way they find the courage to carry on with life, regardless of the way people look at them cos of their twitches. Some of them even found the inspiration to want to educate the others about the disorder, and I find that really brave. Or maybe cos they are just children. But... for children to have that kind of mentality, I think it shows how matured they are. Haha I just wish I had that kind of courage. This song was actually composed for a play/musical called "Annie", a story about an English orphan girl. I don't know what the story of this play/musical is, but I think it's quite a famous one. I must research on it after my exams. Haha so many things to do.. Hope I manage to accomplish them!!
Monday, March 12, 2007
Is there a light?
My relatives are here over the weekend, and I sooo wish I could stay home to talk to them. Haha, I like them, and the house is really more lively when there are visitors whom you know and feel rather comfortable with. Now that Yi Lun is still in UK, the house is really quiet. Luckily I have assignments and reports to keep me busy so I don't think about it that much. But still... I do wish I could have more time to interact with them, though I'm like one generation younger. Politics is so much fun. But it would be a different story if anyone were to stay in the same place long-term I guess, so perhaps it's the novelty that's making me wanna stay home. That, and my sense of escapism, which is becoming stronger. The need to sleep is getting stronger too, an indication that all I wanna do is to escape and hibernate until the holidays are here.
But the reality of it all is that life still goes on, doesn't it? Doesn't matter if a person dies, or something catastrophic happens to anyone. The people left behind still have to go on and live life, otherwise they'll die. What's the relation between this topic and the paragraph before? I'm not sure too, but I suppose what I was trying to say is that there's really no point in escapism, since if I decide to escape, I'm just making the consequences more inevitable and much worse than they can get than if I can confront them. Easy words to type and say, but difficult to fulfill.
The need to escape from school's getting stronger too. Beginning to dislike checking sms-es and webmail, for fear that something else is gonna come up that has to be attended to immediately, and disrupting the schedule that I planned in my mind. Oh, if any of you reading this is thinking I'm targetting it at you, don't worry, it's not you, it's the circumstances. I know it's inevitable that communication has to go on in order to get the thing at hand done, but I just don't like it. Don't stop the communication, coz it's necessary. Otherwise, the consequences will suck. Haha, I'm just being bitchy old me, so just treat it like I'm just complaining for the sake of complaining k?
Ahhhhh holidays are coming, I'm sooo looking forward to it. Maybe I should consider 1 week of closing myself up at home. Haha, the prospect of watching tv all I want is just soooo tempting!!!
To all of you who are feeling stressed now, Jiayou!! We'll get through this again!!
Tuesday, March 06, 2007
I need...
2) better time management
3)to escape from school!!! and work!!!
haha ok i'm back to my complaining mode again, just humour me lahhhhhhhhh haha...
Monday, March 05, 2007
Relapse
There was a watch spree too! And I was reminded of my love for Fossil watches. Damn but they are such beauties! But one costs at least $135. I saw one that cried out for my money, but alas, I'm a poor church mouse. Gotta scrimp and save first before I can buy you. Even then, perhaps I'd have another new love. Haha. Maybe I should have a new goal for myself- to be a millionaire by a certain age. Probably I'd be more thrifty then.
I gotta find a job during the hols. Definitely. If I don't go on exchange, that is.
Thursday, March 01, 2007
My Handphone and other gripings
On another not much more pleasant note, I am sick of eating. Do you know how much time is wasted on eating? Imagine how much time can be saved if one meal can settle everything for the whole day. If you've read Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, you'd know about the bubblegum which Violet Beauregarde ate. That bubblegum contains 3 meals in one sweet, and after eating that, we don't have to worry about eating for the rest of the day. Argh. Just eating that one sweet, and chewing it while doing work... I can just imagine how much time it will save. I wonder if the bubblegum will make me feel sleepy after eating it. It would be good if it didn't, then I can do so much more. I know it's a stupid thing to wish for something like that, coz we usually treat meals as breaks from work, and without stopping for meals, we are little better than machines which are recharged by bubblegum... But it's really frustrating to feel hungry then spend half an hour to an hour eating and then spending about another hour battling sleepiness. That's up to an hour wasted.
I like my food. I really do. But I can't stand it when I have so many things to do and my stupid stomach goes rumbling away and I start feeling dizzy. Just wish I didn't have to eat.
Sunday, February 25, 2007
Evolution
And just to remind us that we, the "weaker sex" have to bear children next time, periods come with cramps. What is this- adding insult to injury? Argh. Sometimes I wish I could just take out the uterus and just wring all the blood out of it. Do you know how much trouble will be saved if we could do that?
I guess some of you may be a tad embarrassed by this entry. Haha, it's not what I'd usually type on my blog too, but I'm feeling too bitchy to care right now. Maybe I'll take this entry off tomorrow. Or maybe I shan't.
^%^%#$(*&_(*Y&*&^&^%#%@#&^*()_+_)(*&^%$#@!
Friday, February 23, 2007
My current favourite song
Wow if my future boyfriend sings it to me next time I'll be soooo touched. Haha I think the lyrics are quite cute leh, quite nice. The music's not bad too. Of course, if you wanna talk about the voice, maybe there's much left to be desired, but I think the lyrics and music make up for it lar... haha =)
Wednesday, February 14, 2007
Eek!
I dreamt I married a cousin from my father's side! Talk about weird. And to add on to the weirdness, this cousin is not someone whom I talk to often. I only talk to him on Chinese New Year, and the topics talked about are just restricted to "Hello!" and "Come and eat!". Yes, so isn't it weird that I dreamt about him? It's disturbing I tell you, especially when you think about what Freud says about dreams symbolising the unconscious. Argh. But I can assure you, I have no feelings towards that cousin. Funny how that dream came the day before Valentine's Day. Hmm...
Well, my dream aside, this Valentine's Day has been the same as always, quite sad eh? Haha I'm waiting for Elvin Ng to come ask me out! =p Haha an equivalent would do too! =)
Friday, February 09, 2007
Name: Yi Ling
Birth Date: 20/2/86
Current Status: single
Eye Color: black
Hair Color: black with fading highlights. Man I gotta do it again after my hair has rested enough. =p
Righty or Lefty: Righty
Zodiac Sign: Pisces
Layer TWO - On the inside
Your Heritage: chinese
Your Fears: confrontations, embarrassing situations, family members and those that I care about having something happening to them, not getting good honours!! =S
Your Weaknesses: Bleah. Procrastination is my middle name. Hating confrontations.
Your Perfect Pizza: chilli, cheese, seafood. Don't really like Hawaiian. Haha, but will eat it if I have to. =)
Layer THREE - Yesterday, Today, Tomorrow
Your thoughts first waking up: Crap I have to wake up. Why does time pass so fast?
Your Bedtime: 130-2am
Your most missed memory: When I was a child.
Layer FOUR - Your Pick
Pepsi or Coke: Used to be Pepsi, but now Coke. It's less sweet and I like the bite of the gas.
McDonald’s or Burger King: McDonald's! I'm a McDonald's fan! Haha
Adidas or Nike: Adidas. Love the clothes, just no money. Sheesh.
Lipton tea or Nestea: Nestea's Ice Lemon Tea!
Chocolate or vanilla: This is a no-brainer. Chocolate!
Cappuccino or coffee: Haha makes no difference to me. Don't really drink coffee- gives me a headache and makes me feel like I'm on steroids. Eew
Layer FIVE -Do you
Smoke: No and I don't plan to.
Curse: Hee yes...
Layer SIX -In the Past Month
Drank alcohol: Does one sip count?
Gone to the mall: No I haven't but I'm going shopping today! Yay!
Been on stage: Nope
Eaten sushi: No. So sad. I wanna eat Sushi Buffet but no money! Argh.
Dyed your hair: Nope. But maybe during June hols.
Layer SEVEN - Have You Ever?
Played a stripping game: No. Nothing to show lar. And I don't plan to.
Changed who you were to fit in: Yes. I'm a conformist.
Layer EIGHT
Age you’re hoping to be married: ??? See when attached first then I tell you. Haha
Layer NINE - In a Girl/Guy
Best eye colour: Black?
Best hair colour: Black or brown. I don't like guys who dye their hair blonde or lighter. I like good boys. Haha
Short or long hair: Short! Unless they can look like Zaizai!
Layer TEN - What Were You Doing
1 minute ago: Giving out the last questionnaire for the session
1 hour ago: Preparing for the experiment that's going on now
4.5 hours ago: Sleeping lar. Don't be mean. I can't wake up that early.
1 month ago: Still slacking in school.
1 year ago: In school, probably running experiments?
Layer ELEVEN - Finish the sentence
I love: my family, chocolate, sleeping, reading, doing nothing, and the course I'm doing now. Hmm would saying friends (I think you know who you are) be a bit dodgy?
I feel: like I'm procrastinating too much. There's a friggin test next week.
I hate: feeling stupid, mental blocks, not being able to sleep.
I hide:Muahaha. Let me continue hiding it lar, don't lidat!!
Sometimes.I miss: the days when I was a child. And maybe JC days. And....
I need: to stop wasting my time.
Layer TWELVE - Tag 5 people.
Nobody. Do it if you are interested!
Haha I realised that while I was doing this, I was thinking of the various contexts I am usually in. Is this typical Asian behaviour? Tell me!
Wednesday, January 31, 2007
Chocolate Buffet at Swissotel Merchant Court
This is the chocolate fountain they had there. In front of the fountain are a bowl of honeydew and I think pineapple. If you think they are weird, I would agree with you. No strawberries! What a pity. Instead, they had honeydew, water apple (?!?!?!), and pineapple. Are you going "hmmm....". Haha I was too. I thought they might have strawberries and kiwis!
One of the things I was looking forward to during the buffet- hot chocolate made for you on the spot by the chef! Contrary to what you all might think about there only being 3 flavours of chocolates, you'd be pleasantly surprised. On top of dark chocolate, there exists another type of chocolate: strong bitter dark chocolate. Yep, this is for those who don't like their chocolate too sweet. I opted for this, coz I wanted to see how bitter bitter chocolate can get. Well, it wasn't sweet, if you're wondering, but not really chocolatey either, but I enjoyed it. I reckon dark chocolate would have been just nice in terms of chocolatey-ness and sweetness. I don't think I'd try the white chocolate though, never been a fan of it. I didn't try milk chocolate either, I figured it might taste like Milo. =p
Tuesday, January 30, 2007
BLEAH
Maybe I should blog about the chocolate buffet.
Watch this spot.
Yes. I know some of you will tell me you were watching this spot. Good for you. Carry on.
Forget it. I'm going to do it tomorrow.
Monday, January 29, 2007
SHE Concert!!
Special guests Fei Lun Hai (haha Si Wei: Ai dao~ Ai dao~) and Stephanie Sun!! Haha Fei Lun Hai's good looking! And it was an experience to see Stephanie Sun in person! Haha...
Wednesday, January 24, 2007
Friday, January 19, 2007
It's a sad sad life
Yes, so here's an announcement:
Please don't sms me! Email me if there's anything, or you can call me at home if you know my house number. I promise to check my mail more often!!
Ok, I'm out.
Tuesday, January 16, 2007
Foodie Food!!
Well and over the weekend I signed up for the trip to Big Fish Seafood Grill. What wonderful timing it is. At least at that time taste levels were up higher than yesterday's, which meant I could roughly taste, and feel the butteriness of the food. But the real taste of the fish eluded me, which was rather sad, though I think Big Fish can be given a try. The presentation of the food and the taste of the brownies and mashed potatoes have convinced me that their fish should not be too far off the mark, so hopefully I'll be able to make a trip down again when I recover. For those interested in Big Fish, it's at 85 Upper East Coast Road. If you need the contact number, ask me or drop a tag, I'll find it and give you. Haha I'm too lazy to check it now. My wallet's within reach, but I don't feel like reaching out. =p
And then that same night, I went to try the Sarawak Chili Noodles, as recommended by some foodie blogger who was recommended to me by LeRoy, one of the Deli Aprecio Club members. The description sounded good and so tempting- the description of how hot the chili was made me reaaaal tempted to go try it out. But again, I overestimated the recovery of my tastebuds, and was disappointed that I couldn't actually give a proper judgement of the noodles. BUT one thing's for sure, the chili's not very hot. I barely felt the bite. And... the texture of the noodles was rather disappointing, nothing different from other stalls. As for the taste, based on my parents' verdicts, wasn't great either. It made us wonder if we had gone to the wrong stall, but... couldn't be, right? There was a queue! And people around us were eating it happily. Hmmm... Maybe it just didn't suit us. I lost interest in the noodles after awhile, sad to say. Well but if you're looking for value for money noodles, then this stall is the one for you. They give prawns, pork ribs (bah kut), fish cakes and alot of noodles. Rather worth the $3, if you ask me. If you're interested to give the chili mee a try, it's at Golden Mile Food Centre, #01-59 (I think). Or you can visit this website: http://ieatishootipost.blogspot.com/2006/10/chilli-mee-3-gen-sarawak-receipe-golden.html to find out more. Who knows, you might like it! One man's meat is another man's poison, after all. =) If you do try it, tell me!
Ok I've procrastinated long enough... Still haven't finished the first set of Prof Chang's notes. Argh. I wanna sleeppppppppppppppppppppppppp......
Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
Sunday, January 07, 2007
December Trip to Sarawak
Roaming around. On the left is a picture from a hill in Song. We were on our way to the "town" area, known more commonly as pasar (market place). On the right is an oil barge owned by my uncles. It's a Shell station, and supplies oil to boats. Let me introduce my cousins here: (clockwise from left) Alvin, Alan, Me, George, Acalia, Laura.
Playing Heart Attack and Uno. Yes yes, I know most of you have probably not played these games for a long time, but we played this at the request of George and Acalia. And... frankly, it was quite fun. Heart Attack was so noisy that we had to migrate upstairs to play. Even then, the adults claimed that they could still hear us. -_-"
All the cousins slept together for 2 nights, and this was how our sleeping quarters looked:
Entertainment was also provided by George and Acalia:
Notice the red-colour lantern like things hanging from the ceiling near the lights? That's a big catcher. Quite ingenous, really, it's raffia string bundled together, and then torn into strips, then soaked in oil until it becomes rancid. The raffia strings then become sticky, and thus trap any bugs rude enough to intrude in our dinner.
Another IHG Gone...
I, for one, played like crap. Oh, the first set started off good. I managed to receive all the balls, and hardly made any mistakes. But at the end of the second set and the beginning of the third set, my smart brain decided to switch off. There was one ball where I just WATCHED the damn ball land in front of me. It wasn't even a fast ball, and I wasn't fast enough to bend down. It wasn't even an ambiguous ball. It was MY ball. Argh. One point down.
If I were to talk about the mistakes I made, it would just bore you all to death. I just wish I was smart enough, alert enough, mentally and physically strong enough to play. Maybe we might have been able to save the points I lost.
Ah well. IHG is over already, and I guess we'll just have to practise harder for next year's. I do hope I'll be able to play for Hall 6 again, coz the teammates are one of the best teammates I've ever had the pleasure of playing with. Though I hardly talked much to any of them, what I liked about the team was that they accepted that everyone was different, but still treated them the same. There was no hierarchy. Reserves weren't looked down upon, and all players were treated equally. Sure, there would be concentration on the main team or perhaps the important players, but I felt that the others were never made to feel as if they didn't belong there. Mistakes weren't scolded at, but taught, and told patiently. We could have had the best players, but the most politics, if there was elitism. But there was none, and that's what I think makes the most comfortable team to play with, and that's the main reason why I like to play for Hall 6, and why I feel so bad that I caused them to lose the valuable points that we needed.
Ah well, let's just hope I can stay back in Hall 6 again, eh? Hopefully next time I'll really be able to make a difference, and also improve. =)
Wednesday, December 20, 2006
Hiatus etc
I think everyone's born a good person, really, like we are born clean slates, and have to be taught about what goes on in the the world and how to react and cope with it. These reactions and coping strategies may not be the best choices some of the time, and may not seem like behaviour befitting good people, but I think, at the end of the day, these reactions and behaviours are really just the methods that we adopt in order to survive. Some people may find being mean an easier method of getting what they want than being nice, so they just adopt it, and pretty soon, it kinda becomes second nature to be mean.
But another question arises. What makes people adopt the various methods that they adopt? Perhaps it's the environment? But some might also question how some people manage to grow up unaffected by their environments. Genetics? How would you explain some people with good genes to turn out bad? Perhaps, like what the textbook always says, there's a balance between the two. And personally, I agree, but I also think relying only on genetics and the environment seems to mean that the person is really just a product of other factors which he or she has no control over. I don't like to think of people having no control over what they are and who they can be. I think there's gotta be something unique inside everyone, that 3rd elusive factor that decides which types of methods and behaviours we adopt when we confront various situations. And this is where individual differences come in. There's gotta be different types of that something in each person. Genes and the environment are perhaps superficial explanations of everything.
We could look at the world in various ways, and that makes each of us unique. But what makes us able to click with each other, and people who perceive the world in different ways? Well I'm not sure either, but perhaps it's the dominance of the 3rd factor. The 3rd factor could coexist with other types of 3rd factor, which enable some people who seem very different to be actually be similar in some ways. Like how sometimes we feel like we are a mess of contradictory personalities, such as wanting to be alone yet wanting to be with someone but outwardly showing wanting to be alone? The dominant 3rd factor could be wanting to be alone, but it coexists with the factor that likes to be around people. Am I making sense here?
People are interesting, aren't they? And so mysterious that they can be darn irritating.
Thursday, November 23, 2006
Cultural Psych
I do hope tomorrow's paper is not as bad as I am expecting it to be...
And don't even mention the past two papers. I just hope I can get decent grades.
Please remind me not to be so bloody ambitious next time. 5 subjects will do.
Saturday, November 18, 2006
This is a very sweet song! I wish I could have found the original singer's music video with his real voice, but this singer is nice too. Enjoy! Below are the lyrics...
Back when I was a child, before life removed all the innocence
My father would lift me high and dance with my mother and me and then
Spin me around ‘til I fell asleep
Then up the stairs he would carry me
And I knew for sure I was loved
If I could get another chance, another walk, another dance with him
I’d play a song that would never, ever end
How I’d love, love, love
To dance with my father again
When I and my mother would disagree
To get my way, I would run from her to him
He’d make me laugh just to comfort me
Then finally make me do just what my mama said
Later that night when I was asleep
He left a dollar under my sheet
Never dreamed that he would be gone from me
If I could steal one final glance, one final step, one final dance with him
I’d play a song that would never, ever end
‘Cause I’d love, love, love
To dance with my father again
Sometimes I’d listen outside her door
And I’d hear how my mother cried for him
I pray for her even more than me
I pray for her even more than me
I know I’m praying for much too much
But could you send back the only man she loved
I know you don’t do it usually
But dear Lord she’s dying
To dance with my father again
Every night I fall asleep and this is all I ever dream
Wednesday, November 15, 2006
Look what my Dog Did
Would you believe an dog that looks like this:

would make my things look like this:

My Post-its!!!
and this:

My eraser!!!
I wanna slap him, I really do! I just dropped my post-its and my eraser for a little while and the next time I looked, they were like that. Do you know how hard I tried to preserve the paper around my eraser and keep my eraser nice and clean?! And the silly boy has to spoil my efforts. Even my Post-its were not spared... From a nice and clean state, they became like.... like... RUBBISH!! Now both of my things have his saliva! Eau de Schnoozee. Does it have a nice ring to it? Oh man... Luckily the smell has faded somewhat from the eraser, and... I don;t think I wanna use the post-its anymore... What a pity. The size of the Post-its was PERFECT for note-taking...
Argh. But what can I do? It's like having a naughty child. We can't abandon our children even if they are mischievous can we? I can't bear to abandon him either. Haha!!





















